Friday, August 31, 2001

Some of my favourite things...

(moved from the old...)

Things I like (a few, anyway):

  • Boxer shorts
  • Baseball caps or T-shirts with texts and pictures that you don't see everywhere (cool or original stuff, no beer logos)
  • Websites without a single broken link
  • People who respect other people's personal space
  • Weekends when there's nothing to do and you can just laze around all day
  • CB/SD anime characters
  • Japanese calligraphy
  • Celtic calligraphy

Wednesday, August 15, 2001

Parents... oy!

(moved from the old...)

My parents got back from a week-long trip yesterday. In the evening, after talking about the birthday and everything else that had happened here, I finally gathered my courage and told them I'm planning to move out. To another town. At the mention of Turku, they knew I meant moving in together with J. Dad kept his poker face, mom asked about my job (to which I replied that I'd already talked to my boss about it) and then said, "We'd better discuss this later, when there's more time."

Sigh. Well, at least they know now.

XXX (thirty, what did you think?)

(moved from the old...)

I've turned thirty. It didn't feel like anything as I don't feel any older than a couple of years ago.

The parties were nice, though... and J's birthday present was the best ever! I was expecting her to arrive on my birthday, sometime late in the evening. I got a phone call from her the night before (it was maybe an hour before midnight); she asked, like so many times before, what I was doing and where I was. I thought she was on her way to the computer room and wanted to make sure that I was on-line.

Then she asked me to open the door. She'd arrived a day early. Wow.

So the next day, after work, there were four of us (instead of the planned three) going to the local amusement park. After two hours and five rides, we went out to dinner, and that was it. Very nice, very relaxed, and really... that was all I needed.

Two days later, on Saturday, I threw an "open house" party to a bunch of friends. Plenty of food, wines and other drinks, a birthday cake (no candles!) made by my sister's fiancé, the works. I'd invited my Scout buddies, some chat friends and a few old friends. About a half of the invited people arrived (A and her gf had to cancel at the last moment, but that was OK, as J and I had a few drinks with them the previous evening).

Again, the day was a nice one and the guests seemed to enjoy themselves. The best thing was, though, that over the course of the evening, everyone had to realise that J and I are together, not "just" as friends. A few of the guests knew already and that only made things easier: they weren't hiding anything and neither were we.

Wednesday, August 01, 2001

Home is where...

(moved from the old diary-type thing)

So it's started for real. The transition, migration, or whatever the hell you want to call it. I've asked my boss about the possibility of doing this job in another city (all I really need is to get into the company network), I've been dropping hints about moving in with J all over the place, and we've made some purchases. A VCR, to replace her old one, wine glasses, stuff like that.

Oh, and I've had a toothbrush at J's place for months already (a fact that I haven't even tried to hide from e.g. my parents). I've also left some clothes there.

By the way, reading mushy fan fiction while missing your gf isn't very smart. It isn't smart at all.